Mindset.
I noticed I do this thing where after I date someone for a certain amount of time, I start picking out flaws. I know I shouldn’t do this because: I have many flaws myself, it is selfish, it is uncaring, and it isn’t wrong to have flaws. I catch myself doing it or cringing at something someone does, and I reprimand myself. But still I can’t help it. And the worst part of it is that the more my brain nitpicks, the less my heart loves. This has happened in almost every single relationship I’ve been in and I don’t know how to stop it. Maybe I need to be more accepting and train myself not to focus on the flaws but rather on the good.
